Award-winning Nigerian author, Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie, has spoken out about becoming a mother to twin boys through surrogacy. She addressed the public criticism she has received and urged society to stop judging women who take non-traditional paths to motherhood.
In an interview with media personality Chude Jideonwo, Adichie shared that she was initially hesitant to reveal her use of surrogacy due to fears that it would become a political issue.
“I didn’t want my children’s birth to be turned into a debate,” she said. “Part of me wished I hadn’t said anything, but I also don’t believe in lying.”
Adichie said her main reason for speaking out now is to help reduce the shame that many women feel when they struggle with fertility or decide to use other options to have children.
“There’s too much pressure on women. Some feel ashamed for having fibroids or trouble getting pregnant,” she said. “I hope my story helps other women feel less alone and more confident in their choices.”
She noted that although her twin boys were born through a surrogate, they are her greatest joy. “My boys are so precious to me. I have absolutely no regrets,” she said firmly.
Adichie, who also has a daughter, said she didn’t want her decision to create pressure for other women. “People may say, ‘Chimamanda had children at 47, why not you?’ But everyone’s journey is different,” she added.
She also spoke about public comments on her appearance after giving birth. “When someone said I looked great for someone who just had babies, I didn’t say thank you, because it would be a lie. I didn’t carry them — they were born via surrogacy,” she said.
Adichie’s honest revelation is a step toward breaking the silence and stigma surrounding fertility struggles and alternative motherhood choices
